The human biologi...

Emma - I just read an article, about sex, the sexolog compared human sexuality with....chimpanzees....

Carolyn - of course. Not the first time I hear this comparision....

Emma - and will not be the last either.

Carolyn - You think....?

Emma - hmm....that is normal thinking nowadays...are you not updated ? 

Carolyn- Hehe.....surely...trying my best.


Emma - But my thoughts are....if frequent sexuality with different partners ,  just alike chimpanzees do in the animal channel, if this is our natural ways,........then why , why are there then soo many many sexual transmitted diseases?

I mean, why is the growth of sexual transmitted illnesses growing in a pace soo fast doctors do not have medication? And some old sexual transmitted illnesses are becoming resistent to treatment. 
Why, if this is our natural way of living ?

Why? if this is the way nature intended us to live....and thrive....for this instant pleasures....sexuality...


Carolyn - Some people are soo inded sexually oriented that they do not even glance at non attractiv people...as if they are a none human species...or a lower type of cast...
Everytime I take the bus I get radically hostile looks from one or more persons.......cause of my weight problem....


Emma - yes but, this is the mentality of a great part of the humanity we have on this planet today.

Carolyn - Don`t say that....it can`t be that extreme.

Emma- But you told it yourself....people almost bully you directly...not with words, but with looks and mimmicks.

Carolyn- Mhm....that means old people, fat people , people on wheelchairs, and people with progeria or other illness that will influence the apperance,....

is it really this severe ? Carolyn questions...

Emma- They are aknowledged as almost none human by many many people?

Carolyn - But why....stop saying those things...you will make me depressed.

Emma - I am not the one doing this to you.....

Carolyn - But you are......

Emma - People do this,  cause they think some people arent pretty enough or within their personal sexual orientation!

Carolyn - But, well....I belive that we are far much...and even further then that far much...evolved

Emma- One thing we are, and that is ...more evolved then chimpanzees or other mammals.
No mather how intelligent those mammals may appear.....
We are not them....
we are more evolved then them....


Carolyn - Reminds me...of a song that was popular in the nighties....do it like they do in the discovery channel or something.....

Emma - Yes, but that song was supposed to be funny....

Carolyn - Yea...

Emma - and people took it completely literally...it seems.

Carolyn Giggles....

Emma shrugs...

Carolyn- I agree... I do....I really do...come on!

Emma - we can simply just not compare ourself with them in the manners that we do......espescially when it comes to sex.
Our primary needs might seem similar....we need food, rest and movement just as them. But we are not them....


Carolyn - hehe.....no...I guess we aren`t.

Emma - My idea is that there is absolutely possible to love another person passionately, with feelings of infatuation...and romance that could last for a lifetime

Carolyn - Without ever touching that person in a sexual manner?
Now here is the sex nazi....

Emma - yes! So people are to stop having sex....! 

Carolyn - sighs....

...Emma grins......
-I do not mean that one should not have sex in a partner relationship.....
I just mean...that sexuality is not the BASE for a good relationship...for love to grow romantically between two.

Carolyn - Sex is a bonus in a partner relationship.

Emma - Exactly...a bonus. Not a necessity. Like glowing Magazines of today want it to appear.

She puts two newspapers on the table...

- Look at this....

Newspaper 1. You should have sex in a minimum of 2 times a week, else it is a sign your relationship has come to an end!

Newspaper 2 You must take care of your sexual needs else you will get all these illnesses listed below.
- Anemia
- Digestive problems
- Anxiety
- Anger fits
- Obesity....surely you are not having enough sex. 
-Anorexia
- Cleptomania
- Depression



Emma becomes silent and goes into thought....her memories go awhile back....and she starts to recall from her memories....

I have seen nuns live long and happy and fulfilled lifes. Without ever having sex. Nor having the need for it. They fill their lifes with many things, many good things, friends, family, efforts and tasks.
They live rich lives........soo rich that I often have glanced upon them and felt a little envy.....


Emma - I wanted to become a nun at one time in my life you know.....she exclaims.

Carolyn - You did...for real ? Ah...therefor the resentment about sex.....
to not say that kinda churchy attitude at times.......

Emma - Me churchy attitude ? Come on....You know I need church to keep myself on track with the lord.....

Carolyn - Soo the world will not swallow you up into its sin....you puritan.....

Emma- I am not puritan Carolyn....truly...that I am not....

Carolyn - Know lets open it up for discussion.

Emma - What ? 

Carolyn - Just kidding....

Emma - No, tell me....

Carolyn - Yea...I well.....but just that I noticed just recently that thing about you, wearing those skirts....

Emma - Well it says in the bible....a lady should dress properly using skirts or dress from the waist to below the knees.

Carolyn - Come on, I wear pants as I like and if I like, and how I like it.

Emma - Certainly....and I wear skirts!

Carolyn - But back to our subject....you where going to become a nun? where and when ?

Emma - oh ...just somewhere, hardly anyone knows, at a place nobody knows about....

Carolyn -ok...I see...but then what happened?

Emma - I decided to choose a family life before a nuns life....and the monk there told me it was just as a precious path....but he insisted that only with the right person....not just anyone that presented themselfs to me.....
I had to promise him that before leaving......

Cause you know....nuns and also have deep respect for family life. Family is also a sacrament of god. 
But their wide and open eyes glance thru the highly sexualized society, And they simply choose not to take part.

Well my impression is that society does not respect family life! 

Carolyn - Maybe at some time in history, society did such a thing. 

Emma - But not today, Not for a wink of an eye.

But you know what ? what is more disgraceful is people walking the whole road thru life still confused, not really knowing what love truly is. Seeking love in absurd places and in absurd ways....

Carolyn - hehe...fifthy shades....

Emma - Love is a longlasting connection and affection for someone. Love never dies. 

Carolyn - I guess.....love is....love is like....
Love is like two souls connecting. Two against the world!


Emma - Romantic love is kissing and knowing that this kiss is something very special.....you can tell soo much by just a single kiss.

Carolyn- Yes, but you can get sexual transmitted illness by a single kiss to.....




Emma - It is almost as if evil lurks around everything pure and then dillutes it.....


Well, there is nothing pure about kissing tons of people . Then you will get something, that is certain.



Carolyn - A person can not just kiss a frog and expect him to become a prince....it just does not happen no mather how much you might kiss the frog....


Emma - might be.....

Carolyn -Love does not exist anymore! Simple as that...

Emma-  It does exist...it surely does...love is everywhere... but somehow everything espescially having to do with romantic love is sort of .....confusing humanity. 


Carolyn - I could not agree more....

Emma - This world makes absurdity , vulgarity and pervesity into romantic love.


Carolyn - Yes. 

Emma - Romantic love is much closer to simple affection, then it is to sexuality.......

Emma is thinking..... When I was a young girl....i remembered I heard story`s of people waiting years and years sometimes almost decades for their special one to come around and give them as much as a kiss...and in the end marry with them. That truly is love.....

Does this type of expression of love even exist anymore....I doubt that.....


Emma - Wait...I will show you a list I just made....searching in a big brown fake leather purse, takes up a striped notebook.
here it is, look...now tell me what you think.

Love is not sodomi
Love is not a fight of who is the stronger in the relationship.
Love is dreaming together, sharing deeper thoughts, 
Love is a smile that melts in your chest...
Love is a smile you remember all thru the day....
Love is unity
Love is a loving voice speaking towards you filled with good intentions
Love is a million things, affection, care, responsability, gentleness, music, art, a conversation, walking together, sitting together looking at the stars, infatuation and romance, having children, loving a child, love is sharing your dreams, begifting, love is trusting, love is truth, love is a little gentle lie to keep the peace(yes, your cooking was great sweety), love is listening eagerly, love is learning, love is humble, love is protection, 
Love is a million things....

Carolyn - hehe....I thought it was fabulous, Could not had written it better myself.....

Emma - Soo then....i conclude...that Human love is not chimpanzee love!
Chimpanzee love is rape compared to human love!


Carolyn - It reminds me of a quote I read somewhere....now how was it....?
let me think........thinking ....
ah...now I got it....

"
Everyone is a know it all today. But in the end, nobody knows anything, cause beyond anything love is a mystery. "


Emma - wow.....yes.....I love that.
I also have a quote I found somewhere, got it in here somewhere....flipping pages thru her notebook..

"Love comes from a bright source that is brighter then the sun, 

Soo I conclude love .....love ....it has nothing, nothing to do with sexuality at all....never has and never will...."

Carolyn - Now that I call Radical...!